The Deep Spot Orgasm
The greatest satisfactions are often obtained after putting in a little effort. It is no coincidence that the most intense orgasm is also the most difficult to reach, partly because it is hidden in a remote corner of our vagina, partly because, not knowing it, we don’t even practice teasing it. We are talking about the Deep Spot orgasm, obtained by stimulating the area of the vagina located further down, near the mouth of the uterine cervix . It is said that direct stimulation of the Deep Spot can provide very intense orgasms, similar in their effects to the sensation given by anal penetration.
How to get it? Pushing deeply or inserting the fingers in the so-called ” come hither ” mode (in Italian “come here”), i.e. the one in which the index finger moves rhythmically to invite a person to come closer. For those of you who remember, it was Johnny aka Patrick Swayze’s favorite gesture in Dirty Dancing : irresistible. It was understood that she was very sexy, but that she could also be the only real point of reference for every female preliminary, we missed. In this case the “come hither”, usually used for the stimulation of the G point, requires the additional presence of another finger, the middle finger, to be brought close to the index to reproduce the same movement. The main difference between G-Spot and Deep Spot stimulation lies in the fact that here the fingers must try to reach as far as possible before pointing upwards and reapproaching the thumb. If not, no problem, the solution is simple: sex toys, better if over 17 cm.
Warning, not all women get excited by the insistent stimulation of the cervix , for some it could be painful. So, omit it, do a test on the track first to see the reaction of your partner and in case of failure, turn to other shores: A, G, C… the erogenous points are infinite. Almost.
The Breast Orgasm
Man’s obsession, woman’s pride, motherhood emblem, art masterpiece and so on and so forth. But no, ours will not once again be an ode to the female breast (may God rest her), but to her orgasm, yes. You got it right, there is a breast orgasm.
In some women, in fact, not only are the nipples in themselves very sensitive, but also full of nerve endings that are directly connected with the clitoris. Thanks a lot, it’s an erogenous zone , you say. In this case, however, it is not a question of a stimulation necessarily combined with that of the clitoris or the vagina , but which can take place independently. In short, there are cases in which the mere titillation of the clitoris can cause orgasm.
As? By making circular movements on the nipple, taking it between the fingers and gently rubbing and kissing it, licking it, sucking it. However, this does not only depend on the skill of the man, mistakenly almost always held responsible for a possible failure of the partner, but on the anatomical conformation of the woman, who may not have such sensitive nipples. For those who cannot have this type of orgasm unless combined with vaginal and clitoral stimulation , we recommend two positions that most allow for breast stimulation:
– the rider sitting on top of him, so that he can squeeze and lick the nipples while she commands the movements of vaginal penetration;
– l of her iu of her lying on her side next to her supine , so as to penetrate her while simultaneously stimulating her breasts or clitoris with one hand;
In case you are unable to stimulate it in the right way for you, you can rely on the masseurs for the erogenous zones, whose circular vibrations and rhythmic pulsations are specially designed to alternate delicacy with vigor in the most suitable measure for the type of area.
Have any of you tried it? Was it different from other types of orgasms? What is your favorite stimulation technique? To posterity the arduous sentence!
The Mental Orgasm
Today is the turn of another orgasm, mysterious but common: the mental orgasm , not to be confused with the orgasm of the brain which has been much debated recently.
Let’s clarify right away. While the mental orgasm is due to a stimulation external to the body (the erotic scene of a film, a dream, the imagination, a voice), so that we suddenly get “wet” sometimes until we come, the orgasm of the brain is the product of a sensory stimulation (a whisper, a touch) that acts locally on the brain and then releases a sensation of pleasure and relaxation throughout the rest of the body. This type of orgasm called ASMR , or Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response , generally manifests itself with a tingling on the skin, back and shoulders connected to the production of oxytocin, the so-called “love hormone”, and is the main object of study of all relaxation therapies. It is a real phenomenon that has already been in vogue for some years, to the point that on Youtube the audio tracks used to obtain this type of result have reached 2 million. In fact, it is enough to listen to a voice considered particularly relaxing to experience a widespread and beneficial pleasure which however has nothing to do with the genital area.
And here the mental orgasm takes over, or a real sexual orgasm produced by our mind and closely connected with our most hidden erotic fantasies .
Who among you has never come while sleeping? And who while watching exciting scenes such as those of the film “The Lover” by Jean Jacques Annaud or “Enter the void” by Gaspar Noè? Everyone has tastes of her, of course, but the fact remains that for us, reaching orgasm without touching is possible. It is the excitement alone that produces it as soon as one is suddenly faced with one’s unexpressed and often perverse fantasies, two women touching each other, a stripper on stage, an old man seducing a young woman, etc.
For many of us the mind also comes in handy when we are not excited enough while making love. At that point we imagine we find ourselves in a different situation, possibly more difficult, and shortly thereafter, coincidentally, we arrive. Yet the clitoris and the G-spot were stimulated even before, what has changed? It was the disposition of our mind that changed.
If you’ve never tried it, don’t worry about it, the other orgasm is always the one, that of the brain, or, if it’s really bad, all the other 10 female orgasms!